Those are the words that Tila Tequila uttered through those lips, not her vagina, through her mouth on her show. I just saw a preview and here she is, tearing up, coming out to the guys and girls on her show. She says, "I'm a bisexual...I hope you understand that this is hard for me.."

Then I just sat here, staring at the television, with my mouth wide open - amazed. I couldn't help but be surprised at how hard it was just to come out as being bisexual. I honestly don't think it's all that difficult to come out being bisexual, considering it's more accepted. Most friends I know, have had it easy coming out bisexual because their family can see that maybe they can change since they still like the opposite sex.

But to see it on television and having her say, "I'm A bisexual" to say "A" is frustrating. It's just for television and ratings. Most people come out, "I'm bisexual", "I'm gay", "I'm a lesbian." Ok, so when you come out as a lesbian, most use a because just saying, 'I'm lesbian" doesn't roll off the tongue very well.

I'm frustrated by this. I had this conversation with a friend of mine and I finally came to a conclusion. Bisexuality, at times yes, I believe it's possible to enjoy the company of the same sex, but I've noticed that most have a preference for either the same sex or opposite sex. I have reason to believe, from what I learned from a teacher of mine, that bisexual men and women, are either too scared to admit they are gay or want so badly to be that they just say they are. I've notice that in most bisexual girls, well a friend of mine noticed, that bisexual girls usually go more towards men, while the bisexual males have more male partners.

More of a preference. It's a matter of who you are attracted to. I think some of us use it as a cop out. They just say that they are bisexual because they are too scared to admit the truth.

Yes, I have bisexual friends, but I have noticed that even though they find women attractive, they have more of a preference for men. As long as they can admit that they have more of a preference, that's fine. But if they just say that they are still confused, then it's a total cop out.

Bisexual people are everywhere, I think they are very interesting. Just like some straight people find gay people interesting and gay people find straight people interesting. I just don't like bisexual people who just live life being bisexual but still sexually confused. If you know what you prefer and who you can see yourself with, come out as either being the confused heterosexual you are or as the gay/lesbian person you really are.

And no I don't have a problem with bisexual people,  I just have a problem when people continue to be confused and do nothing about it and when people refer say, "Oh, he's a gay." or "I'm a bisexual", "I'm a gay," and all that.

Or maybe I'm making a bigger deal about this then I should. Feel free to tell me to shut the fuck up, if you do, I won't hesitate to tell you to do the same thing.

Thanks for reading.

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